Frequently asked questions
Ideally, your ex-partner will agree to mediation, which would help you find a way to compromise around your child’s time and how it’s spent. If your ex-partner refuses mediation, you will need to speak to a solicitor who can guide you through getting a court order.
Concern about your child’s safety with your ex-partner is the only reason residence or access would be denied. If you are concerned, you can get an Emergency Residence Order, which would limit parental responsibility to whoever has the order. These orders are only used in the case of harm or potential harm to the child.
Using mediation is the best option if you are on fairly good terms with your ex-partner, but just want some help in coming to a fair agreement that benefits your child. If mediation has been rejected, or you cannot get any access to your child, speak with a solicitor.
There are no automatic legal rights given to grandparents. You should start with mediation if you are concerned about your grandchild’s safety. If the mediation doesn’t work, Your solicitor may advise you to get a court order.
Mediation and solicitor fees vary. These will be based on the time taken and the complexity of your case. If you are applying for a court order, this will be around £215. Speak to a solicitor to get a better idea of what pursuing child residency might cost for you.
